(好了,拖了一個星期,我來還債了。)
即使現在要嫁也是分分鐘的事情,肯定還是有人喜歡她的成熟知性美的。
我不敢苟同,男人不是都怕這樣的女人嗎?
她說「不見得喎,她們那輩選擇不結婚的很多的。香港知識女性第一代,不知道怎麽調劑家庭與工作之間的平衡。且女性要在社會中冒出頭需加倍付出努力。她年輕時肯定很拼命,對男子要求又過高,錯失良機。後來愈爬愈高,越來越忙,收工回家只想喝碗熱湯,倒頭就睡。試問哪裡有心思養小孩和照顧另一個人起居?」
「怎樣,你是要勸説我不要糾結爲什麽又靚又叻的卻嫁不出去嗎?」
「還有,一個人過慣了,不再能接受有個入厠完不翻坐厠蓋,看完雜誌隨手亂丟,吃完飯堆著碗筷的男人在視線範圍内出入。可能三十餘嵗時,她仍有機會。但一猶豫,男人也就不等了。」
「你也不要糾結了,三兩趟機會錯失 ,就已經到中年了。」
我覺得她表姑姐已經覺得我們要成爲她的「知己」了。
又:auntie真的很時髦,穿polo tee都是collar up的。而且低調優雅的很讓人舒服。
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"auntie真的很時髦,穿polo tee都是collar up的。" Oops, she lost me right there.
As long as she is happy I think that's cool. I don't know which is worse, married the wrong person and be unhappy or just unhappy by oneself.
I'm personally against collar-ups amongst 40+'s... Not to be discriminative or anything... Just was told not to do so. But I guess she does that w/o realising. Mite b a side effect from playing golf. (Phew, lucky that I don do sports at all) she made it look acceptable though. So more or less is forgiven...
Most, make it all, of my "fashion commentaries" are BS. What do I know anyway? So don't take it seriously. I am sure you don't I just want to make sure. And I am sure your aunt is a lovely lady.
Lol, nah I don take it seriously. Rules are to be broken. Plus dressing in a certain way doesn't mean anything but makes us no longer naked.
我是最怕collar up的,可是我媽媽超喜歡... 每次我都好想把他的衣領翻下去.
不過這種要不要一個人的討論其實沒完沒了的.因為一個人的時候總有想要有個依偎的時候.. and vice versa lor.
這個collar-up,個人喜好啦。有人穿得很好看,有人穿得不好看。
其實我每次説到別人一個人,實際上是怕自己最後一個人啦。我不要孤獨地死在自己的公寓啊~~~T.T
不要孤獨地死在自己的公寓啊 > 你未免也太早煩惱這個吧...?!
XD,很快蹉跎一下就要那個什麽的了。特別是很多好友陸陸續續都要結婚了。
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