Friday 26 February 2010

家裡和學校

和家父聊起教育問題
我堅持己見認為家教比學校教育更為重要。
所謂言傳身教。
如果他和媽媽都是流氓,我也不會要努力成為知道分子。

他不認同。
他覺得學校教育更為重要,不然也不存在買樓要買在學區內。
或者家長四周奔波,不惜一切代價只爲送孩子入一間像樣的學校。
他的總結陳詞是,「要是家裡重要,只消買隻複讀機回家就好了,何必去上學呢?」

6 comments:

g said...

family moulds (the early) personality only, while school shapes how we view ourselves and our exploration of the world and possibly our future ideals.

(really hate one colleague sitting around me. =_= )

c.r said...

:D you've got good points here!

do you not like the person or not like the seating plan?

RandomCoil said...

I agree more with CR

Education... is more than spoon-feeding textbook to children...

c.r said...

《三字經》都說了,養不教,父之過;教不嚴,師之惰。
大家都有責任。XD

Anonymous said...

相信上一代大部份出自不富有家庭,父母不怎麼理,個個天生天養,倒是從教育或自己的上進心變成今日的自己.

我們這一代視家教重要,因為大學生太普遍了,父母的經驗反能把我們做得更好.

其實年代的轉變把所以routine都變得不同,今天我們認同家教,特別是當我們看見沒有禮貌的小朋友.但以前,全街都是野孩子,誰會理甚麼家教.將來會點,我們實在不清楚.

g said...

gwen has her point.

even for the next generation's parents (ie. us /our friends or peers)...a high proportion are already u grads XD

so in terms of quality of parenting/schooling, i can't think of great difference. if one is talkng abt upbringing by liberal/sophisticated/well-educated parents, there are tons of such parents. the environment for the next generation is gonna to be very competitive. To stand out from others (or less seriously, just hope the children explore and live up to his full potential), more stringent efforts heeding the finest details is required.